Hey anon, I know you said I didn’t have to reply but I really wanted to thank you for sending me this apology! I think it takes a lot of courage to admit when you’ve been wrong or that you’ve hurt someone with something you’ve said, and I’m so used to people getting defensive and lashing out at me when I talk about racism (or telling me that I’m “oversensitive” about race) that I was honestly expecting to never hear from you again. I certainly wasn’t expecting an apology from you, so sincerely, thank you!
Don’t stress out too much about your last comment. Yeah, it was racist, but you seem like a good person at heart and that what you said was something said out of ignorance rather than malice. I’ve learned through a lot of hard lessons that racism from ignorance doesn’t always mean that person is a bad person, and that ignorance can be overcome with awareness, education, and empathy.
I think it’s very easy for people who don’t have to deal with racism in their daily lives to not see it when it happens (or to not see it when they perpetuate casual racism themselves), and it’s not always fair of me to blame them for their lack of experience. It’s when they’re called out on it and how they choose to react, though, that I think people reveal the quality of their character. It takes a much bigger person to look at your actions and evaluate yourself with a critical eye than it does to just ignore what’s being said and continue on without changing.
BASICALLY WHAT I’M TRYING TO SAY is that making the mistake of saying something ignorant doesn’t have to be a bad thing if you can walk away from the experience a little bit more sensitive, more empathetic towards others, and more aware of how the things you say can affect or hurt the people around you. If you do it that way, you needn’t have any regrets because you’ll have grown into a better person. <3
So thank you again, anon, for your apology! You’ve restored my faith in humanity just a tiny bit c:
Hey, thanks for the compliment on my sketches. I’m not offended that you’re asking if I’m Asian (and yes, I am Asian) but if you don’t mind, I’d like to politely ask why you feel the need to know? Do you think my race is relevant or necessary knowledge for viewing my artwork? Does knowing what race I am somehow enhance or detract from your experience in looking at my art? And if it does, can I ask you why?
I understand that you probably don’t mean anything malicious by sending me this ask and that for you, it’s a very innocuous question, but it’s important to me that I should inform you that there’s an inherent level of casual racism in the things you’re saying. You seem pretty preoccupied with whether or not I’m Asian and theorizing about my background — i.e. that I must’ve been born in Asia with limited access to fast food — when it has nothing to do with the contents of my blog (I mean, I literally post pictures I draw of fat bears with chiseled, tiny buttocks). I’m fairly confident that if I had a last name of European descent, you wouldn’t be asking me things like if I’m just visiting America.
Your implication that I must’ve been born in Asia because I have an Asian last name is more than a little racist. You can be Asian and born in America, the two aren’t mutually exclusive. In fact, you can actually be Asian and born in any number of countries that aren’t in Asia. I just want to point out that the subtext of you asking me if I’m from Asia is that you don’t think I can be American because I am not white, or because I don’t fit your idea of what an American should look like because of my last name and my “pointed eyes.” It’s the same exclusive attitude I deal with every time a white person tells me I “speak really good English,” when English is my first and only language.
I also want to point out that enjoying fast food isn’t exclusive to Americans. A lot of fast food chains that were started in the U.S. have become quite prominent in other countries (for example, China alone has more than 2,000 McDonalds). Maybe this isn’t how you intended it, but it seems like you’re focused on my enjoyment of Taco Bell because it doesn’t gel with the typical Asian stereotypes that people are familiar with or how you imagine Asians should act, when in reality, anyone of any descent can enjoy the heavenly combination of flavors and textures that a Chicken Chalupa Supreme bestows upon one’s palate.
I know I’ve written a lot more here than you were probably expecting, and I really hope you could give it some thought rather than write me off as being too touchy about race (as I think a lot of people are wont to do when the conversation turns to a discussion of racism). I know you didn’t mean any ill will in your original comment, which is why I thought it might actually be worth the effort to explain to you why your comment came off as racist when you weren’t trying to be. You seem like a nice enough person who is maybe just a little bit ignorant about how white privilege affects society’s perceptions of race and stereotypes, and how your words can come across. If you wanted to, I’m open to continuing this conversation in private messages, because I think it’s really important for people to be able to have a healthy discourse about race (or else nothing will ever change).
Sorry, I already made a post saying I’m not taking any more requests!
ahhh thank you!! I always think people don’t have an interest in seeing sketchbook stuff so I’m glad you like it ;u;
I plan to be a layabout and a louse, contributing nothing to society
and maybe finish game of thrones
AAaa than you for the super nice comment!! Hahaha I think out of the 3 of them Rose is my favorite to draw, largely because of her hair. I like to think that as an adult Hermione has finally figured out an effective and efficient way to tame it, whereas preteen Rose doesn’t give a flying fuck :3